Your Wanting Blocks

30 questions to name what’s keeping you from knowing what you want so you can go live it.

Do you know what you want?


Let me guess: health, wealth, and love. Because who doesn’t want those things, right?

But tell me, what is * your * flavor of them? How exactly do those pillars look for you?

Let’s look at wealth: what does it actually mean to you?

I’m sure you wouldn’t object to: Having $1 billion in your account. Taking private jets. Staying in 5 star resorts. Guzzling the latest biohacking supplement. And wearing designer everything.
But are any of these things what you honest-to-god actually want??

Here, let’s check:
How do any of these things fit into your life? That is, what choices are you currently making that have or will lead to obtaining [insert any or all of the above wealth markers]?

Are we drawing blanks?
Did this question trigger an eye-roll?

Look, I’m not here to judge or argue with you or on any of those markers. Not at all!
I just want to know if you’re being true to yourself, and I don’t even care what those truths are!

Because in my nearly four decades of observation and lived experiences across multiple cultures, most of the things we think we desire are just a copy of someone else’s.
Or they represent some imaginary state of “when I have X, I can be happy.”
We inherit these scripts and beliefs from our parents, our peer groups, and society at large, and we rarely bother to question them.

This isn’t a bad thing. It’s just not a true thing.

IMO our whole life purpose—the reason why we put up with the beautiful mess of being human on this planet in this timeline right now— is to live our truth. Whatever it may be.

Our desires can share the same pillars (in fact, I hope we do). But if we’re doing it right, your wealth pillar would be defined differently than mine to reflect the unique human that we each are (or starseed, alien, reptilian or whatever 🖖).

So, if you’re able to truthfully say you know what you genuinely want and are living it, then I don’t know why you’re still reading this.

But if there’s even just a hint of doubt, consider going through this diagnostic framework I created to help name your blocks and learn how to dismantle them.

What You Get

Think of this diagnostic as the exact energetic and behavioral audit you would get if you booked a private, 2-hour deep dive session with me.

Except it’s delivered at a fraction of the price and at a pace that honors your nervous system, not mine.

Here’s what’s included:

30 Point
Behavioral
Evaluation

A precise, interactive survey designed to pull your unconscious defense patterns out of the fog and into the light.

Your Most Prevalent
Patterns Named

Trade in that vague, persistent fog of stuckness for a precise, objective mirror.

Easy to Digest
De-conditioning
Guidance

A breakdown of how your high-scoring patterns are running your life and costing you your joy.

Practical
Exercises

Micro-experiments to help your body safely transition away from fear-based self-preservation and toward love-based alignment.

What to Expect

I wish this was a magic cure-all, that this framework will instantly fix your life.
Because if it did, I’d be a billionaire in a cinch!

But work like this takes time and effort. You have to want it and continually want it for a while before you start to see any real traction. But there’s no other way to start than taking that first step. 

So while my billions will have to be made elsewhere, this is an incredibly valuable map to jumpstart those first steps.

I created this to help you begin to cultivate an unshakeable sense of self-awareness and eventually, self-trust. This invites you to step out of hiding behind “I don’t know” to facing some of the default patterns that may have kept you safe, but also silent and stuck.

I’m sure your life is “fine” right now.
I’m sure you tell yourself that it is good enough. That there’s no point in fixing what isn’t broken.

But if you’re reading this, I will bet $1 billion (that I don’t have YET) there’s a part of you that’s saying “but I’m not ok with just fine, I want more!”

And to that part I will say, “well then, let’s get started!”

Investment: €97 (excl. vat)

Uncover my blocks

What Others Have Said

  • "This diagnostic completely reframed my chronic fatigue, showing me that my constant 'doing' was just a defense mechanism to avoid the uncertainty of slowing down. It cuts right through the usual self-help noise."

    Recent Client

  • "As a textbook Debater, I could always explain my wounds perfectly, but nothing ever changed. This matrix caught me red-handed, exposing how I use logic to argue myself out of my own desires. If you are stuck in an analytical fog, you need to read this."

    Recent Client

  • "I always prided myself on being low-maintenance. Scoring high on the Shell made me realize that 'being fine' was just a performance to protect myself from disappointment. It gave me the raw vocabulary to start trusting my instincts again."

    Recent Client

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Access is delivered to you immediately upon purchase (check your email, especially your Junk folder) and since it is my proprietary knowledge, all sales are final.

    If it didn’t meet your expectations, I’d sincerely love to hear why.

    However the general policy is, no refunds.

  • As soon as your payment clears, you will receive two emails: a receipt and one with instructions on how to access the diagnostic.

    Please check your email Spam/Junk folder if you don’t receive the “Your Wanting Blocks Access” one.

    Use the same name and e-mail to fill out all forms to ensure a smooth experience.

    • Set aside at least 30 minutes of quiet, uninterrupted time to complete the questionnaire.
      To answer honestly, your nervous system needs space to settle so you can actually feel the statements.

    • Be beautifully, ruthlessly honest with yourself.
      Do not answer based on who you wish you were or what you think the "correct" spiritual or logical answer is.
      Answer based on what is actually true in your lived experience right now in order to get an applicable and true result.

  • For any technical glitch or urgent question, you can reach out to me on WhatsApp at @openhandsenergy.

    Just note that I’m based in Europe so response time will vary but I will always respond to you. Please share your name and email address so I can check it in the system.

  • You will have guaranteed access to The Pattern Guide for at least 2 months, though likely longer.

    The exact timeline depends on how the energy and structure of this work continues to evolve.

    Rest assured, you will have more than enough time to return to your scores, study your deconditioning rules, and practice the somatic exercises at the exact pace your nervous system requires.