Your Wanting Blocks

30 questions to name what’s keeping you from knowing what you want so you can go live it.

Do you know what you want?


Let me guess… it’s health, wealth, and love. Because who doesn’t want those things, right?

But tell me, what is * your * flavor of them? How exactly do those pillars look for you?


Let’s look at wealth: what does it actually mean to you?

I’m sure you wouldn’t object to: Having $1 billion in your account. Taking private jets. Staying in 5 star resorts. Guzzling the latest biohacking supplement. And wearing designer everything.
But are any of these things what you honest-to-god actually want??

Here’s a quick test to check:
How are you actually living your life? That is, what choices are you currently making that have led you to or will lead to [insert any or all of the above wealth markers]?


Are we drawing blanks?
Did this question trigger a slight fight or flight response?

Look, I’m not here to judge or argue with you or on any of those markers. Not at all!
I just want to know if you’re being true to yourself. (I don’t even care what those truths are)!

Because in my lived experience (nearly four decades of observation across multiple cultures) most of the things we think we desire are just a copy of someone else’s desires. We inherit scripts from our parents, peer groups, and society at large, and rarely bother to question them.

This is not a bad thing. It’s just not a true thing.

IMO our whole life purpose—the reason why we put up with being human on this planet in this timeline right now— is to live our truth, whatever it may be.

Our desires can share the same pillars (I hope we do!) But if we’re doing it right, your wealth pillar should be defined differently than mine to reflect the unique combo of human that we are (or starseed, alien, reptilian or whatever).

So, if you’re able to truthfully say you know what you uniquely want and are living it, then I don’t know why you’re still reading this.
But if there’s even just a hint of doubt, consider going through this diagnostic framework I created to help name your block(s) and learn how to dismantle them.

What to Expect

Think of this diagnostic as the exact energetic and behavioral audit you would get if you booked a private, 2 hour deep dive session with me.

Except it’s delivered at fraction of the price and at a pace that honors your nervous system, not mine.

This is a 30-point matrix engineered to bypass your analytical brain and it’s logical justifications, and speak directly to your though patterns that circle limiting beliefs.

Here’s what’s included:

30 Point
Behavioral
Evaluation

A precise, interactive survey designed to pull your unconscious defense patterns out of the fog and into the light.

Your Most Prevalent
Patterns Named

Trade in that vague, persistent fog of stuckness for a precise, objective mirror.

Easy to Digest
De-conditioning
Guidance

A breakdown of how your high-scoring patterns are running your life and costing you your joy.

Practical
Exercises

Micro-experiments to help your body safely transition away from fear-based self-preservation and toward love-based alignment.

What You Walk Away With

I wish this was a magic cure-all (I’d make billions in a cinch) and I wish I can tell you this framework will instantly fix your life. It won’t. This type of work takes time.

The entire purpose of this body of work is to unlock an unshakeable sense of self-awareness. It invites you to step out of the fog and look at the exact default patterns you’ve been using to keep yourself safe, but also silent and stuck.

When you complete these 30 questions and receive your patterns, you will walk away with:

  • A Clear Signal: You move out of the overwhelming mental chatter and the vague fog of stuckness. You finally get a clear, undeniable name for your specific block.

  • A Pattern Guide: A breakdown of how your high-scoring patterns are secretly running your life and Human Design chart aspects you may have in yours that make your energy most susceptible to its conditioning.

  • Incremental Practices: Practical, micro-exercises designed to help your body safely transition away from fear-based self-preservation and toward true alignment.

  • The Tipping Point of Self-Honesty: So many of us brush off self-honesty as unnecessary, or actively deny that we are out of alignment. This diagnostic changes that. It is a vital stepping stone that, if genuinely embodied, becomes the exact tipping point that slowly starts to change the entire course of your life.

Being true to yourself is the only way to live a true life.
But you cannot change what you choose to ignore. Let’s look in the mirror.

What Others Have Said

  • "This diagnostic completely reframed my chronic fatigue, showing me that my constant 'doing' was just a defense mechanism to avoid the uncertainty of slowing down. It cuts right through the usual self-help noise."

    Recent Client

  • "As a textbook Debater, I could always explain my wounds perfectly, but nothing ever changed. This matrix caught me red-handed, exposing how I use logic to argue myself out of my own desires. If you are stuck in an analytical fog, you need to read this."

    Recent Client

  • "I always prided myself on being low-maintenance. Scoring high on the Shell made me realize that 'being fine' was just a performance to protect myself from disappointment. It gave me the raw vocabulary to start trusting my instincts again."

    Recent Client

Investment: €97 (excl. vat)

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • There are no refunds. This is an immediate, digital mirror into your behavioral architecture. Because the value is delivered instantly to your screen, all sales are final.

  • The exact second your payment clears, your browser will automatically redirect you straight to the hidden questionnaire page. You can begin the questions right then and there. Additionally, a backup confirmation email with your private access link will arrive in your inbox within 24 hours of purchase.

    • To get through the questions, set aside 30 minutes of quiet, uninterrupted time. Your nervous system needs space to settle so you can actually feel the statements.

    • Be ruthlessly, beautifully honest with yourself. Do not answer based on who you wish you were or what you think the "correct" spiritual or logical answer is. Answer based on what is actually true in your lived experience right now in order to get a true result.

  • For any technical glitch or urgent question, you can reach out to me on WhatsApp at @openhandsenergy.
    Just note that I’m based in Europe so response time will vary.
    It would be helpful if you shared your name and email address so I can check it in the system.

  • You will have guaranteed access to the Pattern Guide for at least 3 months, though likely longer. The exact timeline depends on how the energy and structure of this work continues to evolve.
    Rest assured, you will have more than enough time to return to your scores, study your deconditioning rules, and practice the somatic exercises at the exact pace your nervous system requires.